Seize Control


DOROTHY MASHBURN

NEGOTIATION COACH

Look around at work today.

You sit at your desk, working on a spreadsheet, yet you are miles away — lost in thoughts of 'what if' and 'if only.'

You're waiting.

Waiting for the clock to release you, waiting for the weekend to rescue you, waiting for the job to fulfill you. But it doesn’t.

Every glance at work, feels like a pointed finger.

Instead of enjoying the ride, you're just holding your breath, waiting for it to end so you can let out that sigh of relief.

If this is you, we need to talk.

These are red flags that you are in a toxic work environment. It's not you.

I've been there—in a career that muted me.

I was oblivious, then desperate.

And desperation is a vicious cycle; it seeps into your pitches, your negotiations, making you the last person anyone wants to deal with.

So, I ask you to assess your situation now. Take action. Seek a place where you're valued, where you're fulfilled. Before you are desperate.

A better career isn't a fantasy. It's achievable—a space where your abilities are celebrated, not just accepted. I'm living proof.

Join my Free Fast Job Search Workshop. It's time to to get proactive. So you can get a job that makes you happy. RSVP to discover a role where you don't just survive—you thrive.

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